I get it.
I've been through the same thing you're going through - choosing a photographer. The process can be stressful no matter what type of photography you're looking for.
Getting in front of the camera can be scary and nerve-racking. What I enjoy so much about what I do is that I get to coach people every step of the way. As a result, I provide them an exceptional product that they love and will use for years to come.
If you're the kind of person who runs in the other direction when they see a camera, book a shoot with me and your whole opinion will change - I guarantee it.